{"id":1571,"date":"2010-07-01T11:42:35","date_gmt":"2010-07-01T09:42:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/multifaceted-abnormal.net\/blog\/?p=1571"},"modified":"2010-07-01T11:42:35","modified_gmt":"2010-07-01T09:42:35","slug":"whats-on-my-mind-these-days","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/multifaceted-abnormal.net\/blog\/archives\/2010\/07\/01\/whats-on-my-mind-these-days\/","title":{"rendered":"What&#8217;s on my mind these days"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The reason I&#8217;ve neglected to post properly here is family-related: My dad&#8217;s <a href=\"http:\/\/multifaceted-abnormal.net\/blog\/archives\/2010\/06\/12\/family-ties-a-love-letter\/\">health troubles<\/a> continue, with last year&#8217;s colon cancer making a reappearance as secondary liver metastases.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.flickr.com\/photos\/evamaria_n\/4398826594\/\" target=\"new\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"My dad and I last summer\" src=\"http:\/\/farm3.static.flickr.com\/2680\/4398826594_de6449baa0.jpg\" title=\"Michi&#039;s bday 2009, on Flickr\" class=\"alignleft\" width=\"250\" height=\"187\" \/><\/a>I don&#8217;t want to go into too much detail, respecting my dad&#8217;s wishes, but needless to say this is a rather stressful time for our whole family. I think all of us wish it was us, rather than Papi, who had to go through all of this &#8211; it&#8217;s doubly hard on him because he&#8217;s been healthy all his life and hates having others tell him what to do. And now there&#8217;s doctor&#8217;s appointments and an uncertain future. <\/p>\n<p>Faith is definitely important in times like this. My dad&#8217;s trust in God is absolute &#8211; maybe even too much so, as it sometimes borders on fatalistic. The rest of us (well, my mom and myself &#8211; my brother is firmly agnostic) are naturally very much in the &#8220;take strength from God to fight this as best you can&#8221; camp&#8230; Acceptance seems rather premature. And hopefully we won&#8217;t have to get to that point any time soon!<\/p>\n<p>But yes, obviously this has taken up a lot of my thinking. I am still reading my GReader (see the feed in the sidebar) but don&#8217;t have the mental resources to delve deeply into problematic topics. Luckily summer seems to have finally arrived, so I&#8217;m taking my mind off things by going for runs or walks, as well as watching mindless television (currently a lot of Masterchef Australia, which has the advantage of being aired 5 days a week).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The reason I&#8217;ve neglected to post properly here is family-related: My dad&#8217;s health troubles continue, with last year&#8217;s colon cancer making a reappearance as secondary liver metastases. I don&#8217;t want to go into too much detail, respecting my dad&#8217;s wishes, but needless to say this is a rather stressful time for our whole family. I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1571","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-life"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/multifaceted-abnormal.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1571"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/multifaceted-abnormal.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/multifaceted-abnormal.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/multifaceted-abnormal.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/multifaceted-abnormal.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1571"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"http:\/\/multifaceted-abnormal.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1571\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1573,"href":"http:\/\/multifaceted-abnormal.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1571\/revisions\/1573"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/multifaceted-abnormal.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1571"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/multifaceted-abnormal.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1571"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/multifaceted-abnormal.net\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1571"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}